No one is ever ready to say goodbye to a loved one. The wrenching loss and emotional disorientation seem unbearable as one moves through the stages of grief. Living with Loss is meant to be a source of comfort and encouragement; a promise of connection with others who have had the same experience and who understand your sorrow. The book is illustrated with the soulful photography of Steven Meyers, who beautifully captures the essence of flowers. The accompanying text is from literary stars such as Barbara Kingsolver, ''I lost a child,'' she said, meeting Lusa's eyes directly. ''I thought I wouldn't live through it. But you do. You learn to love the place somebody leaves behind for you.'' (from The Prodigal Summer) and Terry Pratchett, She heard him mutter, 'Can you take away this grief?' (from I Shall Wear Midnight)