Like Dean the Bully is a book about being judged before you get to know someone. When it comes to bullying our fears run deep and the thought of someone not liking us or wanting to hurt us is one of our biggest fears. We judge others' clothing. We judge others' actions. We judge others' words. We all do this to some extent and it relates completely to how we feel about ourselves. If you are happy with yourself and your life you will judge less. Don't listen to others conversations when they are whispering bad things about people. Treat others how you want to be treated.