A man, regardless of his age, race, color, or culture, who is in a new or untrained relationship with a woman of any age, race, color, or culture, who needs to be trained by that woman in order to meet her requirements of happiness, contentment, fulfillment, and security—that is if security is important to her.

Although the book basically talks about training relative to heterosexual relationships, it also applies to same sex relationships.

If you meet a man who proves himself to be worthy (yes, worthy) of your companionship and friendship (first), you can train him to be your man (later). Timing is everything—if you start the training process early in the relationship, you can control its destiny.